Thursday, June 25, 2009

God is Married to the Backslider

Growing up I always heard that God is married to the backslider what does that mean?

Jer 3:1 They say, If a man put away his wife, and she go from him, and become another man's, shall he return unto her again? shall not that land be greatly polluted? but thou hast played the harlot with many lovers; yet return again to me, saith the LORD.

Under the law if you divorced and the wife married another man, you as the first husband could not marry her again. God said I will take you back despite what you have done.

Jer 3:2 Lift up thine eyes unto the high places, and see where thou hast not been lien with. In the ways hast thou sat for them, as the Arabian in the wilderness; and thou hast polluted the land with thy whoredoms and with thy wickedness.

Jer 3:3 Therefore the showers have been withholden, and there hath been no latter rain; and thou hadst a whore's forehead, thou refusedst to be ashamed.

You were marked and refused to be ashamed.

Jer 3:4 Wilt thou not from this time cry unto me, My father, thou [art] the guide of my youth?

Jer 3:5 Will he reserve [his anger] for ever? will he keep [it] to the end? Behold, thou hast spoken and done evil things as thou couldest.

God wont keep His anger at bay forever.

Jer 3:6 The LORD said also unto me in the days of Josiah the king, Hast thou seen [that] which backsliding Israel hath done? she is gone up upon every high mountain and under every green tree, and there hath played the harlot.

The places of worship were established on the high places and in the groves. She went to the places that was supposed to be set aside for praise of God and did horrible acts there.

Jer 3:7 And I said after she had done all these [things], Turn thou unto me. But she returned not. And her treacherous sister Judah saw [it].

God still called her back to Him.

Jer 3:8 And I saw, when for all the causes whereby backsliding Israel committed adultery I had put her away, and given her a bill of divorce; yet her treacherous sister Judah feared not, but went and played the harlot also.

Judah didn’t learn from Israel’s actions.

Jer 3:9 And it came to pass through the lightness of her whoredom, that she defiled the land, and committed adultery with stones and with stocks.
Stones and stocks = idols

Jer 3:10 And yet for all this her treacherous sister Judah hath not turned unto me with her whole heart, but feignedly, saith the LORD.

Judah didn’t change with her whole heart but just with the service, the deep heart needs to be committed. Have a really made a true commitment to God or do I just love Him on the surface? God wants a full commitment of ourselves to Him. God turn my heart to you alone.

Jer 3:11 And the LORD said unto me, The backsliding Israel hath justified herself more than treacherous Judah.

Israel justified her actions, don’t just go through the motions turn with your whole heart. Judah saw the example if Israel and did not turn.

Jer 3:12 Go and proclaim these words toward the north, and say, Return, thou backsliding Israel, saith the LORD; [and] I will not cause mine anger to fall upon you: for I [am] merciful, saith the LORD, [and] I will not keep [anger] for ever.

God is a forgiving and merciful God.

Jer 3:13 Only acknowledge thine iniquity, that thou hast transgressed against the LORD thy God, and hast scattered thy ways to the strangers under every green tree, and ye have not obeyed my voice, saith the LORD.

Just confess your sins, confess and acknowledge that you are wrong.

Jer 3:14 Turn, O backsliding children, saith the LORD; for I am married unto you: and I will take you one of a city, and two of a family, and I will bring you to Zion:

God is married to the back slider.

Jer 3:15 And I will give you pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding.

God gives us pastors who will feed us with knowledge and understanding of God. God just wants us to come back to Him so He can delight in us.

Jer 3:16 And it shall come to pass, when ye be multiplied and increased in the land, in those days, saith the LORD, they shall say no more, The ark of the covenant of the LORD: neither shall it come to mind: neither shall they remember it; neither shall they visit [it]; neither shall [that] be done any more.

We wont talk about the ark (we don’t talk about the ark) because we have the new covenant, Jesus blood covenant.

Jer 3:17 At that time they shall call Jerusalem the throne of the LORD; and all the nations shall be gathered unto it, to the name of the LORD, to Jerusalem: neither shall they walk any more after the imagination of their evil heart.

We call Jerusalem the holy land and this is the most protected land among the nations.

Jer 3:18 In those days the house of Judah shall walk with the house of Israel, and they shall come together out of the land of the north to the land that I have given for an inheritance unto your fathers.

Jer 3:19 But I said, How shall I put thee among the children, and give thee a pleasant land, a goodly heritage of the hosts of nations? and I said, Thou shalt call me, My father; and shalt not turn away from me.

Jer 3:20 Surely [as] a wife treacherously departeth from her husband, so have ye dealt treacherously with me, O house of Israel, saith the LORD.

Jer 3:21 A voice was heard upon the high places, weeping [and] supplications of the children of Israel: for they have perverted their way, [and] they have forgotten the LORD their God.

Jer 3:22 Return, ye backsliding children, [and] I will heal your backslidings. Behold, we come unto thee; for thou [art] the LORD our God.

God will HEAL our backsliding.

Jer 3:23 Truly in vain [is salvation hoped for] from the hills, [and from] the multitude of mountains: truly in the LORD our God [is] the salvation of Israel.

Jer 3:24 For shame hath devoured the labour of our fathers from our youth; their flocks and their herds, their sons and their daughters.

Jer 3:25 We lie down in our shame, and our confusion covereth us: for we have sinned against the LORD our God, we and our fathers, from our youth even unto this day, and have not obeyed the voice of the LORD our God.


  1. Wow you had a lot to say! Great Message! keep it up

  2. I truly needed this. Sometimes we forget that even though we have done wrong, we can always come back to God. As long as we confess that we have done wrong, and be honest that it was us that was done wrong, and turn away from it to God in repentence, then surely God will forgive us.


  3. While it is very true that "if we confess our sins, He (God) is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1John 1:9), and we can always turn to Him for that forgiveness, we must also realize the potential danger that we may take God's forgiveness all too lightly, and forgiveness becomes a game where we knowingly sin and think all we have to do is simply ask God for forgiveness. Consider this; we may just not have time to turn back to God before we die. With this in view, we should strive not to turn away from God to begin with. "The Lord is not slack concerning His promises, as some men count slackness, but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should parish, but that all should come to repentance."(2Peter 3:9) We would do well to remember, God knows the intent of the heart (Jeremiah 17:10) and He is not mocked (Galatians 6:7). We should pray and seek God for strength and the baptism in the Holy Ghost if you are not already filled with The Spirit: for it is He (the Holy Ghost/Spirit) who empowers us to live out what God demands of us, "truth in the inward parts" Ps.51:6. He is our keeper; and He will keep us if we truly want to be kept.

    His laborer,

    1. Amen! Thank you for your input.

    2. truly enjoyed reading. I will add that many view backsliders as individuals that physically leave the church whis=ch is so very true. But recently im seeing a number of backsliders in the church and at every service. The bible defines a backslider in there heart as, an individual who is filled with his/her own ways.prov 14:14, isaiah 4:1

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